The Sacrifices We Make

Do not let your children live in ignorance of your sacrifices….
“I will literally go hungry so that you can eat” 

I recently said this to my children because I had become tired of the teenage angst moments: you know, the sighing, eye rolling, foot-stomping, under the breath moments that typically come with teen years ( I wrote typically because teen angst may come earlier or not at all; it is not to be expected or feared, but rightly confronted if it does appear).

I had just told my children to eject a movie they’d set their sights on watching. It was R-rated and totally inappropriate, so they were asked to eject it ( I didn’t buy the movie and it’s not my house, but it was my place to prevent them from watching it). They huffed, puffed, whined “whyyyy??” and upon ejecting, I heard some mumbling under the breath. I was hurt. Why? Because I would do anything for my children: rescue them from a burning building, stand in front of a moving bus, go hungry so they could be fed, stop them …

Compassion is in Session

Dear Feminine Woman,

You must teach your family to be compassionate. Compassionless children, compassionless husbands, compassionless family members are the number one cause of stress, tension, anxiety and depression in women. This is not a scientific fact, but I would put money on it.

A husband who lacks compassion lacks the ability to truly connect with his wife.
Children who lack compassion cannot share, cannot empathize, and cannot relate to anyone’s needs but their own
Family members who lack compassion will convince you to prioritize their desires over yours and their needs over your own often. You will be made to feel guilty (and possibly even alienated) if you do not.

Compassion is defined as “sympathetic consciousness of others’ distress together with a desire to alleviate it”. Synonyms include kindness, mercy, humanity, kindheartedness, sensitivity, understanding, benevolence.

I want a husband who alleviates my stress. I want a husband who notices my stress! And I want my ch…

10 things every radical feminine woman needs to know (part II)

6. Manners are essential. Don’t be a Moody Judy, not in text, talk or mannerisms. Like mama used to say, if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say it at all. Treat people like people, not as tools to be used and then disposed of after usage. Address your mom, sister, husband, hairstylist or coworkers with a  friendly greeting BEFORE making a request. A simple, “Good morning, how are you?” of “I hope your day is going good” goes a long way.  The people we interact with need to know that they matter to us. We cannot assume they know this all of the time.
When out on a date and you are bored out of your mind? don’t be rude to the guy. Excuse yourself from the table, visit the restroom and give yourself a pep talk, sing a song, do a dance, say your gratitude list out loud, something! So that when you exit, you feel better.  Determine to be polite, cordial and kind for the remainder of the date; however, it is perfectly fine to excuse yourself early from a date to attend to an “em…

10 things every radical feminine woman needs to know

The Transformational Femininity Webinar (my first webinar EVER!) was a HUGE success! It was an honor and a blessing to share with such radical women.
I do hope you'll join us for the next one!

Okay, now for our post....

1. There is no real growth without a significant investment in your  personal development. Pay for that coaching session, attend that seminar, buy that book, listen to that podcast. There is so much information available out there for you to grow your business,grow your wealth, grow your perspective, grow your relationships...a radival feminine woman knows that she must take advantage of those tools to grow herself so she is not left behind in life with a bunch of regrets. 

2. You are a brand, represent your brand well (from your mouth to your mood). "I am a Global Teacher and Wealthy wife who lives in Paris, France". This is what I tell myself every single day before I leave the house. So I dress like it, eat like it, exercise like it, teach like it, spend a…

Your Feminine Legacy

Your femininity is deeper than pink dresses, pretty lipstick and cute nails. And although marriage is uber important to you staying in feminine energy all your years, that hubby can't make you feminine. He cannot make you nurturing. You must have those skills on deck when he meets you (ever read Proverbs 18:22? The woman is already a wife when he finds her).

What will your husband, daughters, granddaughters, sisters, nieces, best friends or even clients say about
your femininity? Is that a thought for you? Do you care?
If your first thought is no, let me help you out.
How people remember us
when we are gone is how they know us while we are here.

Having trouble convincing others
that you are NOT a superwoman? Or super strong? That you are not an ATM or payday loan
office? Or that somethimes you DO need a rest or a break?
How can they know this and even
value this about you if you are always showing them the
If you want to stop being viewed as the provider or the protector of your …

Transformational Femininity: A Course for Women Who are Ready to be Renewed

You were created to nurture. And at times life may feel boring, stressful or downright sad because your busy schedule, demanding boss, needy clients, self-absorbed boyfriend, and/or masculine female friends won't let you be vulnerable. You nurture them but receive nada in return­čśĹ

Transformational Femininity Webinar

Feminine nurturing comes in many forms, and is what most women do everyday... without much thought: baking cupcakes, cooking dinner, compassionate touch, giving hugs, lending a listening ear, singing a melody to lighten a loved one's mood, serving your family first, offering support and advice. The thing with Feminine nurturing is that eventually it can take a toll.
Afterwards, you may feel depleted, drained and even angry. That is because masculine women, feminine men, and selfish family members- no matter how cool, fun or loyal-cannot substitute for  a masculine man who is committed to protecting you, providing for you and loving you. Only *his* energy can truly r…

Femininity: So What?

Feminine women have more fun. And they're more protected and provided for than masculine women...or women who run from or ignore their Femininity.

Feminine women have less worries, less struggles, and less panic attacks too! They know that trying to do it all and have it all, all by themselves is just NOT an option. Feminine women know the power of relationships. And they know the power of asking for help. They are able to give AND receive.

 If you've read my blog posts before you'll understand that I see Femininity as more than just...

1. Pretty hair, beautiful makeup and nice clothes
2. Getting men to do what you want, when you want
3. Pretty dresses and high heels
4. Acting girly and speaking softly
5. Batting your eye lashes and smiling sweetly

Femininity is a way of life. It's how you treat people and how they respond to you. It is humble submission and obedience to the authority figures God has placed in our lives (the main person: husband).
Femininity is going …