Look and Sound your Best

 I don’t know what masculine men rate you as. You know, they all have this scale in their mind (1-10) and women fall at the higher or lower end of that scale depending upon several factors. Please make it your business to find out what masculine men in your culture (or the culture you desire to marry into) desire. And no, it’s not what American media tell us they desire: TV and media are only about consumerism…real men like certain things and you don’t have to buy fake boobs or get your cellulite burned off to please them.

You don't need to be a skinny-minny, I certainly am not! But it is important
that our bodies are healthy, attractive and proportionate. 

For now, here’s some information to tide you over and get you started on looking and sounding your best to attract your BEST mate:
1. Check that BMI: the closer you are to the ideal, the better. If you fall into the overweight category of your BMI, it’s time to get serious about weight loss. If you’re overweight, I understand (My BMI is 26, currently working hard on losing the weight so I can be healthy for MANY decades and attract my best mate).  A feminine woman at an ideal weight has the power of masculine persuasion.   I know, I know this stuff is unpopular to talk about...much less write about  but this is how masculine men think. And that’s okay! They operate mostly off of instinct so are unable to verbalize these things to us…mostly because if they did, we’d be hurt. And they’d feel bad. So, they just silently leave. Well, I’m not leaving you silently!
And just so you know, you don’t need to be sticks and bones, but you do need to be healthy. Our health is our family’s wealth, so let’s get serious about it.

2. Stretchmarks are okay. Masculine men desire REAL women. Stretchmarks, cellulite and jiggly-ness (not a word, I know!) let them know you are all woman.

3. Feminine clothes and accessories are a must. Men like the things that make women girly. Dangling earrings, pearls, clothes in feminine colors or different shades of pink, heels, lacy or sheer fabrics, flowy dresses. These are the things a masculine man’s eyes are drawn to.

4. Refuse to be slutty, sleazy or masculine in appearance. Dress like the High Value Wife you will one day be. Think: 1950’s housewife or Michelle Obama…those are the looks you’re going for!

5. Use your feminine voice always. Check out videos of Marilyn Monroe online…men love the high-pitched baby voice. Use that or if your voice is naturally deeper, think of how you sound when you talk to a baby or a very attractive man. That’s your feminine voice…practice it and use often.

6. If you refuse to take the advice above or fail to continue your feminine education, you might still very well marry a man. But he won’t be your best mate. And you’ll be his work mule, not his wife …no Bueno!