Feminine Lifestyle Quickie: Masculine Respect

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Give Masculine Respect to ALL men, not just the handsome ones, the rich ones, or those older than you. Young men (i.e. sons, grandsons, brothers, nephews, cousins, male students, etc) deserve masculine respect too.

Hitting, yelling, humiliating, name calling, laughing at him, scolding him publicly are emasculating and should not be the ways a Feminine Woman deals with a Masculine Man or Young Man.

If he takes it from you, he will take it from every woman (because you would have normalized this behavior). And we all know how positively sad and embarrassing it is to see a man emasculated by his woman.

Boundaries and discipline are necessary, emasculation is not. Know the difference and commit to treating the young man in your life like the King you hope he will one day become.

If you are a single mother who is Dating for Marriage, it is imperative to only consider and date men who have the attributes and characteristics you hope for your own son to one day have (i.e. If the guy you're dating is a pothead, alcoholic or abuser, let him go!!!)

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  1. UnknownAugust 16, 2017 at 7:07 AM

    Hi Dominique!!! Loved this blog it helped remind me of how I should treat my son. Keep shining Lovely!!!

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    1. DominiqueAugust 19, 2017 at 12:04 AM

      Awww that's wonderful! Thank you for reading, Shanel :)

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