Serving & Treating Your Husband List

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How should a feminine wife serve and treat her husband?  I love this question because it reminds us just how important feminine nurturing is to our masculine man. Only a wife can nurture a man to his best self.

 In marriage I will nurture my husband to greatness by following his lead, respecting him and our family wealth, offering him peace, maintaining a beautiful, musical and relaxing home, supporting his goals, having enthusiastic sex daily, giving him massages and special treatment, listening to him, cooking him healthy meals, and serving him in public and private.

Not really sure how to serve/treat your man? Look below:

1. Follow his directions. It makes a man feel good when his woman actually listens to him and obeys what he says. Submission is power!
2. Respect him. At all times. And refuse to allow others to disrespect him.
3. Offer him peace. This begins with not talking his head off about trivial things
4. Keep your home clean, pleasant-smelling, and organized. Tale pride in being a domestic goddess!
5. Your husband’s goals are your goals. Build him up with your support (financial, verbal, etc)
6. Have sex with your husband at least every 2 days.
7. Your husband deserves special treatment. Massage his tired muscles, rub his head, sing to him, wash his feet, give him a morning blow job, drop by his job at lunchtime with his favorite meal, brag about him on social media, write him a love letter, record a naughty video for him, send him daily selfies
8. Listen to your husband, not just when he’s speaking but when he’s silent. In Wife School we learn about masculine communication. Men say much in their silence. But when he does speak, please look at him and give him your full attention.
9. Wives are responsible for keeping their protecting and providing husbands healthy. Please forego the takeout and fast food stuff and cook dinner each night (at least most nights!)
10. Respect the family wealth. Save money, invest money, make money, don’t waste money.  Clip coupons, bargain shop, make stuff, grow food, come up with ways to generate passive income…make it your goal to multiply your husband’s income. Not divide it!
11. Serve your husband always. Serve him his plate of food, bring him water, put on/take off his shoes, wash his feet....there are a bajillion ways to serve your sexy King!

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